“Some days you win, and some days you learn.”- J.R. Richards
This week’s discussion features an amazing interview with J.R. Richards. Watch the video to learn more about leadership in a band, the music industry, and his accomplishments in peer leadership. This article is free for everyone so enjoy the content and become a paid subscriber to support me and my team to continue building more topics on leaders and supporters. - Video available here and on rumble.
John Robert Richards, later Reid-Richards (J.R.) is an American musician, singer-songwriter, and record producer as well as a composer for television and film. J.R. was the original lead singer and principal songwriter of the band Dishwalla until 2008. J.R. has released several albums in his solo career: TBD (2020); Under the Cover (2019); Stripped (2016); Honore et Amore (2015) and A Beautiful End (2009). He is working on several new projects, touring, and offering private concerts in your living room. Check out more about him at jrrichardsmusic.com.
Understanding Peer Leadership.
Peer leadership is rooted in the belief that leadership is not exclusive to individuals in formal positions of authority but can emerge from any team dynamic. Peer leaders leverage their knowledge, skills, and interpersonal abilities to inspire, motivate, and support their colleagues in achieving collective goals. They act as catalysts for positive change, fostering a culture of collaboration and innovation within the team.
I am sure you have faced a time where you were requested or ordered to take on a task, problem-solve, or manage a project where the team was filled with personnel you did not directly lead or that held similar level positions as you. This happened many times in my 27 years of experience while leading military formations. For example, A team with all captains working on a school project, a mission that involved multiple commanders, or a staff planning session where everyone was the same rank were all commonplace in the military. This situation means you can no longer rely on basic authority to establish leadership hierarchies.
A leader must adjust their leadership style, as well as adapt to the changing dynamics to ensure the team is cohesive and goal-oriented. When I was assigned as a Brigade Planner, I found that all of the brigade staff were requesting my section to conduct all of the planning. In other words, they wanted my team to conceptualize, plan, write, and produce the orders in the brigade. This with only three personnel and no expertise in each staff section’s highly technical skills needed to produce an order. My point to the staff was simple, if a plan requires your staff section's expertise, you plan, conduct meetings, and write the order. My shop would support your efforts with expertise on how to plan and help publish the order.
I could not order these other sections to do this, they are led by personnel of my rank or higher. I had to use the techniques we are going to discuss in the next section and present a logical argument to develop a new way of business for my brigade. Achieving approval from the chief of staff certainly helped to keep the staff in line, but the chief cannot always be everywhere or in every planning meeting. Credit goes to my argument, to my peers' empathy, and to their understanding that mission success depended on producing the best plans. I also feel that providing my peers with support in their efforts and not just letting them plan alone was a way to inspire collaboration and respect.
Principles of Effective Peer Leadership.
Conflict resolution is not just stating your point, as a peer doesn’t have to follow that point. It is also not just about developing a democratic solution. Resolving conflict implies that you can move disagreement amicably to a solution. Whether you use democratic methods to make decisions, or everyone agrees that someone has the final say, like a songwriter as J.R. discussed, it is using communication and active listening skills to steer arguments into favorable outcomes for the group. Notice this is not your outcome, but the group's outcome.
Peer leadership is a knowledge-sharing and a developmental action. The goal is to build a culture of continuous learning and development by sharing expertise, resources, and best practices because you or your team do not have all the answers. “It is important for leaders to influence the acquisition, retention, and application of relevant knowledge that can provide a competitive advantage” (Yukl, G., 2012). You can facilitate peer-to-peer mentoring and coaching relationships, fostering professional growth, and skill enhancement, but recognize that it goes both ways in a peer-led group. You bring your expertise and receive others' expertise to create the best solution to the problem.
J.R. discussed in the video that a band must have a wide range of sounds and styles. A guitarist might have a style for the drums in their mind, but may not have the expertise to know if that will work in a specific song. A great peer leader inspires those band members to listen to each member’s input and then provide their expertise to develop a better song. J.R. even points out that to instill collaboration, try every suggestion and see if it works, no matter how insane you may perceive them to be in the moment. When the decision is made, all members support that decision as good peer supporters.
Peer leaders set the standard for excellence by demonstrating integrity, professionalism, and a commitment to shared goals. They embody the values and behaviors they wish to instill in their peers, serving as role models for ethical and responsible conduct. As a leader working with your peers, you have to set an example or no one will support you. Effective peer leaders “with integrity inspire confidence in others because they can be trusted to do what they say they are going to do. They are loyal, dependable, and not deceptive” (Northouse, P. G., 2018).
Open lines of communication through active listening from other perspectives to demonstrate empathetic understanding in your interactions. You must always communicate, concisely, and transparently with your team members. A quality leader articulates goals, expectations, and feedback constructively, fostering a climate of open dialogue and mutual respect. “Interpersonal (or social) skills include knowledge about human behavior and group processes, ability to understand the feelings, attitudes, and motives of others, and ability to communicate clearly and persuasively” (Yukl, G., 2012). Knowing who you are communicating with is important. When you offer guidance, be encouraging, use proper constructive feedback techniques, helping your peers overcome challenges and grow professionally.
Peer leaders play a vital role in nurturing team morale and engagement, cultivating a sense of camaraderie, belonging, and pride among their peers. They foster a supportive team culture where members feel valued, respected, and motivated to contribute their best. This creates effective and empowered teammates to take ownership of their responsibilities and make autonomous decisions. They delegate tasks and authority based on individual strengths and capabilities, enabling team members to contribute their best efforts. Yukl (2012) suggests that using democratic decision processes, shared responsibility, and sharing information will empower commitment, innovation, responsibility, equality, less turnover, job satisfaction, and up to 46% performance gains.
Lastly, create opportunities for collaboration and teamwork, leveraging the diverse strengths and perspectives of team members to achieve superior outcomes. They encourage brainstorming, problem-solving, and knowledge sharing to foster innovation and creativity. Northouse (2018) found that you can build a collaborative team by managing controlling behaviors, developing ways for the team to communicate safely, rewarding good behavior, and guiding the problem-solving techniques with the team.
If you haven’t watched the video by this point, I recommend doing that now. In the next section, we will discuss the main points that J.R. talks about in the video. His points reiterate many of the topics that we write about in the leaders and supporters articles. Learning these points will not only make you a better peer leader but a great leader in any industry.
Lessons Learned from J.R. Richard’s (30 Years of Peer Leadership in the Music Industry):
Inspire others through respect, empathy, team collaboration, fairness, sincerity, honesty, and trust. This will empower good people to accomplish amazing music.
I touched on this above, there is no place for a leader with bad values. Interpersonal skills allow you to translate your thoughts to others in a way that others will understand. The values listed above are essential to developing good interpersonal skills. If you don’t use these skills, people will recognize bullying or insincere responses and you will lose their commitment. To empower peers, you will need to be as reliable as what you are requesting from them.
Define roles in a band to allow for the most efficient decisions and personal responsibility.
Dagher (2024) lists four benefits to defining roles: eliminating duplication, increasing accountability, maximizing talents, and collaboration. She also gives tips for leaders to define roles in a team: “Understand your team’s strengths; determine what needs to get done; meet and discuss priorities on an ongoing basis; give people ownership over specific areas; ask employees about their long-term goals; and align roles and responsibilities with their goals” (Dagher, K., 2024)
Kindness means more than talent when you are on the road and have to build on personal relationships. Swinand (2023) discusses how to build kindness in your workplace through:
Self-Care and Honesty on Your Well-Being
Accountability
Sincerity in Building Relationships
Reward and Acknowledge People
Constructive Feedback
Constructive feedback in a learning environment will reduce frivolous disagreements. Read more on this topic:
Week 12: Constructive Feedback
“I think it’s very important to have a feedback loop, where you’re constantly thinking about what you’ve done and how you could be doing it better.” – Elon Musk Constructive feedback plays a pivotal role in fostering growth, development, and collaboration in the workplace. It serves as a valuable tool for enhancing individual and team performance, promoting accountability, and building a culture of continuous improvement. This article explores the importance of constructive feedback, strategies for delivering effective feedback to subordinates, peers, and leaders, and guidelines for identifying appropriate feedback opportunities.
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Become an expert in your craft and in your people.
Peers want assurance that you are dedicated and trained as well or better than them. Knowledge of your craft is part of leading your peers, you also need to know about who you are talking to so you can effectively communicate. Active listening, and building those personal relationships will allow you to be an expert in your people.
Collaborate as a team to achieve a goal and problem-solve.
“Collaboration involves reducing the difficulty or costs of carrying out a request, and it is especially appropriate when compliance would be difficult for the target person … With subordinates and peers, there is more opportunity to propose ways to facilitate the target person’s ability to carry out a request” (Yukl, G., 2012). Collaboration versus directing is an effective tool when working in teams with peers because it shows respect for working on tasks together and reduces excessive labor.
Peer leadership is focused on guiding and inspiring teams of peers toward shared goals and aspirations. By embodying the principles of integrity, collaboration, and responsibility, peer leaders empower their teammates to achieve excellence. Through effective communication, support, and constructive feedback, peer leaders build positive environments through inspiration making invaluable contributions to organizational performance and growth. The next time you are placed in charge of a team of peers, I hope this article helps you lead successfully to your goals.
Sources for this Article:
Northouse, P. G. (2018). Leadership: Theory and Practice. SAGE Publications.
Yukl, G. (2012). Leadership in Organizations. Pearson Education.
Swinand A. (2023). Why Kindness at Work Pays Off. Harvard Business Review (accessed on 24 March 2024 at https://hbr.org/2023/07/why-kindness-at-work-pays-off).
Dagher, K. (2024). Defining Team Roles And Responsibilities: Benefits & Tips. Fellow (accessed on 24 March 2024 at https://fellow.app/blog/productivity/how-to-effectively-define-team-roles-and-responsibilities/).