Proverbs 16:18-19: “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall. It is better to be of a lowly spirit among the poor than to divide the spoil with the proud” (NRSV, 2016).
Pride, a multifaceted emotion, plays a significant role in the dynamics of leadership and organizational behavior. It can act as a powerful motivator, driving leaders and teams toward excellence. However, when mismanaged, pride can lead to arrogance and inflexibility, ultimately hindering organizational success. This article delves into the dual nature of pride in leadership, exploring when it is beneficial or detrimental, and offers strategies to cultivate positive pride within an organization.
Is it not a fine line between a proud parent and a PROUD parent? I think you have seen it. The proud parent celebrates achievements, and talks about their child’s accomplishments, but not at the expense of others or in a hyperbolic manner. The PROUD parent never stops talking, almost reveling in their child’s successes, and might even over-emphasize success without recognizing flaws.
I first discovered negative pride watching a mother talk about her son after he raped and killed an elderly woman in Chicago. I was amazed at how this mother could overlook that heinous crime to tell the news reporter her son was the best. She even touted how he was kind and helpful, always willing to help the elderly. I was amazed the reporter could maintain a straight face.
The above story is a description of a haughty spirit. In a business or workplace, it can create a toxic environment. Negative pride will tendril into your organization and lead to overconfidence, mistakes, and resistance to change. Conversely, positive pride is a useful tool for leaders to build better teams, motivate others, and instill resilience. Just like many facets of leadership, you have a choice in what you foster.
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New Revised Standard Version (2016). https://www.bible.com/bible/2016/PRO.16.18-19.NRSV
Beneficial Aspects of Pride in Leadership.
1. Motivation and Achievement: Pride in one’s work can drive leaders and employees to achieve higher standards and surpass goals. According to Tracy and Robins (2007), authentic pride, which stems from genuine accomplishments and effort, fosters motivation, persistence, and a sense of purpose. Leaders who take pride in their achievements are more likely to inspire their teams, leading to increased productivity and job satisfaction.
Success is a gravity well to high-functioning employees. When word gets around that a team or company is successful, high-performing, or cohesive, quality people will want to join. A leader who can develop authentic pride will not only see the benefits of a great team but also in their hiring practices. These quality employees will stick around, and most likely profit from doing so as well. This will become a reinforcing positive cycle.
2. Confidence and Resilience: Pride contributes to a leader's confidence and resilience, essential traits for navigating challenges and uncertainties. A leader with a healthy sense of pride can make bold decisions, stand firm in the face of adversity, and provide a sense of stability and direction for their team. This resilience can be contagious, promoting a culture of perseverance and adaptability within the organization.
You see this in real time when a person’s favorite sports team doesn’t win the championship. Fans don’t start following and supporting the champions, we say, ‘Better luck next year.’ We keep on supporting our team with pride that we are sharing the wins and the losses. We believe the coach will use this to better the next team and stand resolute until we win or lose the championship in the future. A leader who can foster this in their organization gains lifetime supporters.
3. Care and High Standards: Pride can also promote higher standards. I am sure you have heard someone say they care about the quality of their work. This is a byproduct of a positive proud employee. I have had Soldiers that would pick up garbage around the unit area, without being told, because they wanted to come to work in a clean environment. They cared about the unit and created a high standard for others. This pride leads to success.
Detrimental Aspects of Pride in Leadership.
1. Arrogance and Hubris: When pride becomes excessive, it can manifest as arrogance or hubris, leading to poor decision-making and a toxic work environment. According to Tangney (2002), hubristic pride is characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance and a disregard for others' contributions. Leaders who exhibit this form of pride may alienate team members, stifle creativity, and create an atmosphere of fear and resentment.
The worst example is the leader who takes all the credit unless they are blamed. Their proud attitude leads to the hubris that they never make mistakes. It isn’t me that failed, it must have been my subordinates. Or, I don’t need support, this accomplishment must have happened because of my glorious virtue. It is a grueling work day under these leaders and it does nothing but destroy team dynamics.
2. Resistance to Feedback and Change: Excessive pride can also make leaders resistant to feedback and change. Overly proud leaders may view constructive criticism as a threat to their authority or competence, leading to defensiveness and an unwillingness to adapt (Ashford, 1986). This resistance can hinder organizational growth and innovation, as it prevents the incorporation of diverse perspectives and new ideas.
One of the worst units I ever served in during my Army career had this issue. Especially the leader who wanted to accomplish an achievement and did everything they could to make it happen, even things that hurt accomplishing tasks. When feedback was given, from experts in their craft, it was seen as an insult to the leader's abilities. It wasn’t constructive to plan this event. In the end, it was evident when the achievement this leader so preciously sought after, didn’t go as well as that leader wanted.
3. Damaged Relationships and Missed Opportunities. A negatively proud person begets all others. Choosing to elevate themselves before, if ever, anyone else. They will inflate facts, or straight out lie, and their relationships will suffer for it. Employees will begin by staying away, to the best of their ability, and then they will produce ‘just enough work to not get fired.’ Lastly, they will leave for better opportunities.
The negatively proud leader is left without quality supporters to accomplish the mission. The lack of innovation and drive to support that leader will create missed opportunities that would have benefitted the organization. Each missed opportunity carries a dollar sign with it or a lower market share.
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